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dippleme · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 10:25 pm Post subject:

she is not that much in love... I dont know if I should do this.. but anyway... its now more than her... its become a personal battle to me... against all who are stopping me ... my family, she herself.. meeting her is the battle not what may follow, if you understand what I mean.... its not just her anymore.
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dippleme · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 10:27 pm Post subject:

for her its like... you are very sweet, and I like you a lot, but you come first then I will see, not before that.
Fine... I will buy that.
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dippleme · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 10:28 pm Post subject:

anyway.. I am filling up your forum with crap.. I dont think this is quite meant for it... is it Kapitan?
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Sourav · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 10:56 pm Post subject:

It's OK man, forums are there to chat and discuss only. About the other thing, well, now that the situation is clearer to me, I am not sure what should I tell. Should I remain diplomatic and tell you things like don't worry it will be ok or be more honest and tell you what I feel.

As, if you want me to be honest, I will tell that may be this time your parents are not wrong and that may be you should listen to them. Cross cultural union is an extremely difficult affair and in your situation when the other party is as you have just mentioned, you may soon find yourself in a position when you will be emotionally dependent on her, and she being emotionally independent controlling the whole familly and you following her orders meekly. Life can really become very tough in that situation. Leave aside the issues relating to difference of culture and religion, something we can not and should not ignore as the daily life consists of this only. Love dies oneday, but the issues of daily life never dies.

Well, I know that you are mature enough to decide, but still I thought to give you my 2 cents since you are opening up.

dippleme · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:01 pm Post subject:

I will try to give you a clearer picture.. my father is dead and he never had problems with this... and my mother and my uncles/aunts(on my mother's side) are not against this union in particular.... they are against photography, business, going abroad et al. They wanted me to be a clerk. Sorry, that is what I had to say to them... many years back. And on my father's side I know only his sister who is however supportive of me. My father was another strange fellow. I dont know why he never was in touch with his own family.
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dippleme · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:05 pm Post subject:

so you see I have no ties here almost. Except my two dogs. And then the things I want to do... I can never do them here. I want to kiss my girlfriend in public. Sorry I cannot be in a hide hide relationship. I didnt learn these things ever. Then I want to crate beautiful nudes. And I want to be able to do landscapes on canvas without people crowding round me. You see I am not Hussain. I like solitude when I paint.

So......
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dippleme · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:06 pm Post subject:

no no she cannot rule me.. I cannot be in a dependent relationship in the first place.. pas possible.
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Sourav · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:07 pm Post subject:

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dippleme · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:11 pm Post subject:

and that is why we are still in a soup sourav... in the british soup.. and that is why we run to usa and not to france sourav as you mentioned in your postings regarding india-france affairs.
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Sourav · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:14 pm Post subject:

Wish things get sorted out between you two then ... get the book I mentioned earlier, this may help you. Or, try for au pair, though it's much easy for a girl to get the job.

Or, how long it takes to get a nurse's certificate? As far as I know, they have huge shortage of nurses, and here nurse means both male and female.

dippleme · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:15 pm Post subject:

I can think of three dire consequences... death, bankruptcy, and imprisonment for terrorism(like the Indian doctor in Australia. Very possible for any asian in the west today isnt it?)
I have been very near the first more than once. I have gone through the second. And am infact an ardent admirer of these two. They teach you things which your entire life and money will not teach you if you have not faced these two.
Regarding the third, I am yet to come to terms with that.
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Sourav · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:17 pm Post subject:

yeah ... I will prefer the first two for me ... third one is, well ... Confused

It's 11.20 pm here ... time for having the dinner ...

nice talking Saumya ... bye for tonight Very Happy

dippleme · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:18 pm Post subject:

ah well... what about English teaching?
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